Saturday Self-Care Snippet

Have you ever wondered why it is easier to gripe and complain about life’s little issues, and even the big ones? Well it is human nature to make ourselves miserable by complaining and being impatient when things don’t go our way. It is like reflex, and the first place our minds go to…..unless we train our minds to BE MORE.

Imagine what would happen if we got up each morning and made the choice to be positive. With the innocence of a child, we approach each day with great expectations that something wonderful is about to happen.

Imagine if we had an attitude of gratitude despite the storms of life – counting our blessings and being thankful in all things.

Imagine if instead of focusing on all that is bad in our life, we help someone who is struggling. I am sure you will find that not only is it a blessing to the person receiving your help…..it will be a blessing to you, and completely changes your perspective. It’s like magic! Try it!

The truth is, we are not guaranteed a trouble free life. But the beauty is that we don’t have to go through life alone.

I have learned that gratitude is one of the best things you can do for yourself when navigating life’s murky waters.

What do you do when life hands you lemons?

Do you plan a day at the spa or lunch with friends? Dive into a hobby, or a good book? Or do you fall victim to complaining, impatience and ingratitude? I admit that I am guilty of the latter, but like many of you may testify, I am a work in progress. When I catch myself complaining, I turn it around to being grateful for the things that are going right. I go to my happy place: Laying in bed and reading one of my favorite shelter magazines or a book on design (I have quite the collection, so there will always be self-indulging moments like this ). House Beautiful and Traditional Home are still my favorites!